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| Tuesday, August 30, 2005 |
It happened one day when i went out with alvin, his dear friend A and A's girlfriend. I shall NOT mention whatshisname as im not as blunt as what he thinks i am. All along, EVERYONE including he himself gave me the impression that he hits on super chio, super hot...whatever kind of girls alright. And one day, he got himself a girlfriend...and one day...i happen to see his gf. Well, it did happen coincidentally that Alvin told me before we met him that A getting girlfriends was a "seasonal" thing. And so, with whatever impression i had of him, i presumed that his gf would have known that la....and during a meal together with A and his gf, i accidentally blurted the fact out...thinking that she wouldnt think anything of it since she was together with him and SHE should have known. Well...i do admit that was an accident and it just came out....i dont think it was a good idea to say that and i do realise it.... But THEN, after that incident, that dear friend A was complaining about how blunt i was to Alvin and all. Fine....if it's just between the two of them, i really dont care. But he had to tell the like "everyone" else who knew he and Vin la. BEst. Made me damn pissed already. And still dare to say im blunt. Now who's the blunt one? A mistake is a mistake. Just tell me and i wont do it again. But do you have to tell the WHOLE world and let the WHOLE world knows about it except me? How the hell do i know about this? Oh well, it happened on this darn day when i saw Vin's OTHER friend, YX topless in his room...his back was sunburnt and it looked pretty uneven so i just simply asked a question: "What happened to your back? Are you having a rash?" Simple, question from a person who's concerned about a friend. And thanks ar, what i got was , " I finally see A's point now." This left me puzzled. What point where they talking about? YX and Vin seems to have a common understanding about some "point". Fine....so i grilled Vin about it lor....and he told me about some friend called A telling some friends that some girl A was "blunt". IT does sound petty...doesn't it? But talk about bluntness....i dont think i was the only one here.... And in this whole stupid incident....Vin did NOT defend me at all. And i thought he was the person who knew me best. Boy was i disappointed. You can just let your friends put me down like that without saying a word in defense. Suddenly i feel so distant, so isolated. What people say behind your back really reflects alot on your relationship. And the fact that he said nothing....just shattered my heart into a million pieces.....yet i never showed my disappointment. He never knew what i said behind his back.....but i never take any negative comments about him lying down. This time, i'm just so disappointed. Makes me wonder what other bf's would do if this happened to them. Perhaps they wouldn't say a thing also.....but if so, they wouldn't be worth keeping really. And i learnt something from this too.........please do keep your comments about your friend's partner to yourself....or it's BOUND TO BE disastrous. I'm like an erupting volcano right now...and i have a reason to be so. When a piscean's hurt by BLUNT words.....it really hurt.......and she might never recover again..... |
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